{"id":956,"date":"2013-12-13T18:05:27","date_gmt":"2013-12-13T18:05:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ornbardur.com\/?p=956"},"modified":"2013-12-13T18:05:27","modified_gmt":"2013-12-13T18:05:27","slug":"arnfridur-felixdottir-1929-2013","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/?p=956","title":{"rendered":"Arnfr\u00ed\u00f0ur Felixd\u00f3ttir 1929-2013"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/localhost:8081\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/arnfridur-felixdottir.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/localhost:8081\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/arnfridur-felixdottir.png\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-957\" alt=\"arnfridur felixdottir\" width=\"230\" height=\"274\"><\/a>\u00d6rn B\u00e1r\u00f0ur J\u00f3nsson<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Minningaror\u00f0<\/p>\n<p><b>Arnfr\u00ed\u00f0ur Felixd\u00f3ttir<\/b><\/p>\n<p>1929-2013<\/p>\n<p>h\u00fasm\u00f3\u00f0ir og r\u00e6stingarkona<\/p>\n<p>\u00cdrabakka 20<\/p>\n<p>\u00datf\u00f6r fr\u00e1 Grafarvogskirkju 13. desember 2013 kl. 13<\/p>\n<p>R\u00e6\u00f0una getur\u00f0u hlusta\u00f0 \u00e1 h\u00e9r fyrir ne\u00f0an og lesi\u00f0, einnig s\u00e9\u00f0 s\u00e1lmaskr\u00e1 og br\u00e9f fr\u00e1 barnabarni\/systurd\u00f3ttur:<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Sumrin<\/strong> \u00ed Hraunpr\u00fd\u00f0i voru yndisleg. \u00c1in ni\u00f0a\u00f0i, hrossagaukurinn steypti s\u00e9r \u00far h\u00e1loftunum og hneggja\u00f0i me\u00f0 st\u00e9lfj\u00f6\u00f0runum, kettirnir m\u00f6lu\u00f0u og hundarnir hv\u00edldu sig \u00ed skugganum. \u00deetta var \u00e1\u00f0ur en h\u00e1lsar og h\u00e6\u00f0ir bl\u00e1nu\u00f0u af l\u00fap\u00ednu en laxinn st\u00f6kk \u00ed \u00e1nni eins og hann haf\u00f0i gert \u00ed m\u00f6rg \u00fe\u00fasund \u00e1r og str\u00e1karnir sem komu \u00ed heiminn upp \u00far mi\u00f0ri s\u00ed\u00f0ustu \u00f6ld l\u00e9ku s\u00e9r \u00ed m\u00f3 og mel. Karlinn var \u00e1 sj\u00f3 og kom \u00ed land me\u00f0 hlutinn sinn en reyndar f\u00f3r stundum k\u00fafurinn af hlutnum \u00e1 lei\u00f0inni upp \u00ed Elli\u00f0a\u00e1rdalinn \u00ed leigub\u00edla og eldvatn. \u00c1 vetrum var allt me\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0rum bl\u00e6 og erfi\u00f0ara a\u00f0 komast um fyrir konu me\u00f0 fj\u00f3ra str\u00e1ka \u00ed heimili og eina st\u00falku, sem fer\u00f0a\u00f0ist f\u00f3tgangandi og me\u00f0 str\u00e6t\u00f3 til a\u00f0 sk\u00fara \u00e1 kv\u00f6ldin svo h\u00fan \u00e6tti fyrir nau\u00f0\u00feurftum. \u00de\u00e1 var fuglinn farinn til s\u00f3larlanda og m\u00f3inn hlj\u00f3\u00f0ur en heima voru hundur og k\u00f6ttur og str\u00e1karnir og systirin sem alltaf voru eitthva\u00f0 a\u00f0 bj\u00e1stra.<\/p>\n<p>\u00deau kynntust \u00ed \u00deykkvab\u00e6num, Fr\u00ed\u00f0a og Einar og settust a\u00f0 \u00ed Reykjav\u00edk.&nbsp; Hann var f\u00e6ddur \u00ed Borginni en alinn upp \u00ed D\u00f6lunum. Miki\u00f0 hefur breyst \u00ed borginni fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed \u00feau dr\u00f3u sig saman, b\u00e6\u00f0i atvinnu- og mannl\u00edf, samg\u00f6ngur og allt anna\u00f0. J\u00e1, allt hefur breyst &#8211; nema manneskjan &#8211; h\u00fan er og ver\u00f0ur eins \u00fe\u00f3tt t\u00e6kni fleygi fram og s\u00edmar s\u00e9u komnir \u00ed vasa flestra, s\u00edmar sem eru \u00ed raun t\u00f6lvur sem eru fl\u00f3knari og fullkomnari en \u00fe\u00e6r fyrstu sem fylltu heilu herbergin.En hj\u00f6rtu mannanna sl\u00e1 eins og \u00e1\u00f0ur. \u00c1stin er s\u00f6m og enn gr\u00e6tur f\u00f3lk \u00e1stvini s\u00edna. \u00dea\u00f0 hefur ekki breyst \u00ed tug\u00fe\u00fasund \u00e1r. Manneskjan er \u00feannig ger\u00f0 og h\u00fan heldur \u00e1fram a\u00f0 skapa og breyta heiminum en \u00e1 \u00ed mesta basli me\u00f0 a\u00f0 breyta sj\u00e1lfri s\u00e9r. Enn erum vi\u00f0 breiskt f\u00f3lk og broti\u00f0, f\u00f3lk me\u00f0 vonir og drauma um betra l\u00edf og fegurri heim.<\/p>\n<p>Tr\u00fa, von og k\u00e6rleikur eru hugt\u00f6k sem heyra saman. A\u00f0 tr\u00faa \u00e1 Gu\u00f0 og grunngildin sem henn hefur gefi\u00f0 okkur, vona \u00e1 betri t\u00ed\u00f0 og elska l\u00edfi\u00f0, heiminn, f\u00f3lki\u00f0 og Gu\u00f0, \u00fea\u00f0 er verkefni l\u00edfsins.<\/p>\n<p>Arnfr\u00ed\u00f0ur f\u00e6ddist 16. j\u00fan\u00ed 1929 \u00e1 Bala \u00ed \u00deykkvab\u00e6, Rang. H\u00fan l\u00e9st \u00e1 Dvalar- og hj\u00fakrunarheimilinu Grund vi\u00f0 Hringbraut 50, 5. des. 2013.<\/p>\n<p>Foreldrar hennar voru Gu\u00f0bj\u00f6rg Gu\u00f0mundsd\u00f3ttir h\u00fasfreyja \u00ed Reykjav\u00edk, f. 18. j\u00fal\u00ed 1908 \u00ed Sigluv\u00edk V-Landeyjum, Rang., d. 17. feb. 1949, og Felix Helgason verkama\u00f0ur \u00ed Reykjav\u00edk, f. 28. sept 1872 \u00e1 Mel \u00ed \u00deykkvab\u00e6, Rang. d. 5. sept. 1956.<\/p>\n<p>Systkyni Arnfr\u00ed\u00f0ar eru: Helgi f. 24 feb. 1933, d. 3.\u00e1g\u00fast 2010, Gu\u00f0mundur f. 3. j\u00fal\u00ed 1934, d. 1935 og Fj\u00f3la f. 5. mars 1945 og lifir h\u00fan ein systkin s\u00edn.<\/p>\n<p>Arnfr\u00ed\u00f0ur e\u00f0a Fr\u00ed\u00f0a eins og h\u00fan var alltaf k\u00f6llu\u00f0, giftist Einari Baldurssyni sem var f. 17.des. 1917, d. 2. apr. 1995. Foreldrar Einars vonu Baldur Einarsson sj\u00f3ma\u00f0ur \u00ed Reykjav\u00edk f. \u00e1 \u00cdsafir\u00f0i 11. j\u00fan\u00ed 1891 d. 19. \u00e1g\u00fast 1966, og konan hans Gu\u00f0n\u00fd H\u00f3lm Sam\u00faelsd\u00f3ttir h\u00fasm\u00f3\u00f0ir \u00ed Reykjav\u00edk f. 9. ma\u00ed 1899 d. 21. \u00e1g\u00fast 1931. Seinni kona Baldurs var H\u00f3lmfr\u00ed\u00f0ur Stefan\u00eda \u00d3lafsd\u00f3ttir f. 1890 d. 1965.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Synir Fr\u00ed\u00f0u og Einars eru<\/p>\n<p>1. Baldur f. 10. \u00e1g\u00fast 1953, kv\u00e6ntur Steinunni G. Kn\u00fatsd\u00f3ttur f. 22. \u00e1g\u00fast 1956. B\u00f6rn \u00feeirra eru a) Gu\u00f0r\u00fan Helga f. 5 mars. 1981, sonur hennar er Dan\u00edel Sm\u00e1ri f. 25.des. 1999 b) Kjartan f. 15. n\u00f3v 1982. B\u00f6rn Baldurs fyrir hj\u00f3naband eru c) Lilja f. 2. j\u00fan\u00ed 1977 og d) Fj\u00f3la f. 2. j\u00fan\u00ed 1977.<\/p>\n<p>2. Gu\u00f0mundur f. 6. \u00e1g\u00fast 1955 d. 27. jan. 1974.<\/p>\n<p>3. Sam\u00fael f. 1. \u00e1g\u00fast 1969, kv\u00e6ntist Lilju Eggertsd\u00f3ttur (skilin) d\u00f3ttir \u00feeirra er Svava \u00ddr f. 1 \u00e1g\u00fast 1996. Samb\u00fdliskona hans er El\u00edn Ragnarsd\u00f3ttir f. 27. j\u00fan\u00ed 1967 d\u00e6tur \u00feeirra eru Hei\u00f0a D\u00eds f. 12 des 2002, Ragnhei\u00f0ur S\u00f3ley f. 13.ma\u00ed 2008.<\/p>\n<p>4. Einar f. 17.okt 1971.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Einar og Fr\u00ed\u00f0a h\u00f3fu b\u00faskap \u00ed Reykjav\u00edk. Fr\u00ed\u00f0a var heimavinnandi me\u00f0an str\u00e1karnir voru litlir, en vann s\u00ed\u00f0an hin \u00fdmsu verkamannast\u00f6rf, me\u00f0al annars vi\u00f0 fiskvinnslu, vi\u00f0 heimilishj\u00e1lp, en lengst af hj\u00e1 P\u00f3sti og s\u00edma vi\u00f0 r\u00e6stingar.<\/p>\n<p>Heima var h\u00fan \u00e6t\u00ed\u00f0 me\u00f0 eitthva\u00f0 \u00e1 prj\u00f3nunum og af \u00feeim komu kynstrin \u00f6ll af fatna\u00f0i, peysur, sokkar, vettlingar, bolir og buxur. Sjaldan sat h\u00fan a\u00f0ger\u00f0arlaus \u00feessi duglega kona sem \u00e6tla\u00f0i a\u00f0 kl\u00e1ra hvern dag me\u00f0 s\u00f3ma. Sta\u00f0festan var \u00f3tr\u00faleg, \u00ferj\u00f3skan svo seig, segja str\u00e1karnir af gamansemi, a\u00f0 h\u00fan hef\u00f0i geta\u00f0 sta\u00f0i\u00f0 fyrir framan stein \u00fear til hann hef\u00f0i or\u00f0i\u00f0 a\u00f0 hreyfa sig \u00far sta\u00f0. \u00c1 heimilinu var einnig yngsta systir hennar, Fj\u00f3la sem var a\u00f0eins 4 \u00e1ra er m\u00f3\u00f0ir \u00feeirra l\u00e9st og \u00f3l Fr\u00ed\u00f0a hana \u00fev\u00ed upp \u00e1samt str\u00e1kunum s\u00ednum. Fj\u00f3la var \u00ed raun \u00ed senn sem d\u00f3ttir og systir og b\u00f6rnin hennar litu \u00e1 Fr\u00ed\u00f0u sem \u00f6mmu og Einar sem afa. D\u00e6tur Fj\u00f3lu l\u00fdsa henni me\u00f0 \u00feessum or\u00f0um:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u201eA\u00f0 koma \u00ed heims\u00f3kn til \u00f6mmu og afa \u00ed Hraunpr\u00fd\u00f0i var eins og a\u00f0 st\u00edga inn \u00ed a\u00f0ra ver\u00f6ld, ma\u00f0ur vissi ekki hva\u00f0a \u00e6vint\u00fdri bi\u00f0u manns, \u00fea\u00f0 var miki\u00f0 r\u00edkid\u00e6mi a\u00f0 eiga \u00feau a\u00f0. Amma var kannski ekki miki\u00f0 fyrir a\u00f0 kyssa og kn\u00fasa en h\u00fan ger\u00f0i bestu \u00e1starpungana, flatk\u00f6kurnar og v\u00f6fflurnar, a\u00f0 \u00f3gleymdu j\u00f3lahangikj\u00f6tinu. H\u00fan f\u00f3r me\u00f0 okkur \u00fat a\u00f0 t\u00edna kart\u00f6flur og rabbarbara og ger\u00f0i sultu og graut, \u00feannig s\u00fdndi h\u00fan okkur \u00e1st s\u00edna og k\u00e6rleika. \u00c1 sunnud\u00f6gum var svo sannarlega alltaf l\u00edf og fj\u00f6r, fj\u00f6lskylda, hundarnir Poll\u00fd og Koll\u00fd, gott me\u00f0 kaffinu, Tinna og Lukku L\u00e1ka b\u00e6kur, Andr\u00e9s \u00d6nd \u00ed v\u00eddeot\u00e6kinu og yndisleg n\u00e1tt\u00fara. Haf\u00f0u \u00fe\u00f6kk fyrir allt, elsku Fr\u00ed\u00f0a amma. \u00de\u00ednar S\u00f3ley, Gu\u00f0bj\u00f6rg og Gy\u00f0a, d\u00e6tur Fj\u00f3lu.\u201c<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3ley bi\u00f0ur fyrir kve\u00f0ju til ykkar allra en h\u00fan gat ekki veri\u00f0 vi\u00f0st\u00f6dd \u00feessa ath\u00f6fn \u00fear sem h\u00fan er b\u00fasett \u00ed Dam\u00f6rku. Br\u00e9f fr\u00e1 henni mun \u00e9g birta \u00e1 vefnum me\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0unni.<\/p>\n<p>Margar eru minningar ykkar sem kve\u00f0ji\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0a konu.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00fasin Hraunpr\u00fd\u00f0i og Fossgil \u00fear sem \u00feau bjuggu \u00e1\u00f0ur voru ekki vel einangru\u00f0 h\u00fas og ekki var \u00ed \u00feeim hitaveita heldur ol\u00edukynding. \u00deau ofhitnu\u00f0u \u00fev\u00ed aldrei og mikill var munurinn a\u00f0 komast \u00ed \u00cdrabakka 20 \u00fear sem hitaveituvatni\u00f0 rann og kosta\u00f0i l\u00edti\u00f0. \u00cd Hraunpr\u00fd\u00f0i var\u00f0 h\u00fan a\u00f0 fara fyrst \u00e1 f\u00e6tur og s\u00ed\u00f0ust \u00ed r\u00fami\u00f0 og hugsa um a\u00f0 kynda. H\u00fan var eins og konan \u00ed lj\u00f3\u00f0i Dav\u00ed\u00f0 Stef\u00e1nssonar hva\u00f0 kyndinguna var\u00f0ar:<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9g finn \u00fea\u00f0 gegnum svefninn,<\/p>\n<p>a\u00f0 einhver l\u00e6\u00f0ist inn<\/p>\n<p>me\u00f0 eldh\u00faslampann sinn,<\/p>\n<p>og veit, a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er konan,<\/p>\n<p>sem kyndir ofninn minn,<\/p>\n<p>sem \u00fat me\u00f0 \u00f6sku fer<\/p>\n<p>og eld a\u00f0 sp\u00f3num ber<\/p>\n<p>og yljar upp hj\u00e1 m\u00e9r,<\/p>\n<p>l\u00e6\u00f0ist \u00fat \u00far stofunni<\/p>\n<p>og lokar \u00e1 eftir s\u00e9r.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Lj\u00f3\u00f0i\u00f0 endar \u00e1 \u00feessum fleygu or\u00f0um:<\/p>\n<p>F\u00e1ir nj\u00f3ta eldanna,<\/p>\n<p>sem fyrstir kveikja \u00fe\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Aldrei kvarta\u00f0i Fr\u00ed\u00f0a yfir kj\u00f6rum s\u00ednum en vann s\u00edn verk af dugna\u00f0i og seiglu. H\u00fan var f\u00f6st fyrir og vildi ekki \u00feiggja neina hj\u00e1lp en standa \u00e1 eigin f\u00f3tum og vinna fyrir salti \u00ed grautinn. Einar var \u00e1 sj\u00f3 lengi vel en vann s\u00ed\u00f0ar \u00ed byggingarvinnu og vi\u00f0 l\u00f6ndun hj\u00e1 Togaraafgrei\u00f0slunni. Hann var duglegur ma\u00f0ur og \u00feau voru hvort \u00f6\u00f0ru g\u00f3\u00f0 og l\u00edfi\u00f0 batna\u00f0i bara me\u00f0 \u00e1runum. Fr\u00ed\u00f0a var bindindismanneskja og Einar n\u00e1lga\u00f0ist \u00fe\u00e1 ver\u00f6ld me\u00f0 \u00e1runum, h\u00e6tti a\u00f0 drekka 1973. Hann var alla t\u00ed\u00f0 \u00e1byrg\u00f0arfullur \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir \u00f3reglu \u00e1 t\u00edmabilum en svo veiktist hann 1975 og heilsu hans hraka\u00f0i n\u00e6stu \u00e1rin. Hann l\u00e9st 1995. Einar haf\u00f0i mikinn \u00e1huga \u00e1 \u00e6ttfr\u00e6\u00f0i og b\u00f3klestri og bar heim bunka af b\u00f3kum sem hann s\u00f3tti \u00ed Borgarb\u00f3kasafni\u00f0. Rith\u00f6nd hans var einstaklega f\u00f6gur og f\u00ednleg.<\/p>\n<p>Str\u00e1karnir gengu \u00ed sk\u00f3la \u00ed Reykjav\u00edk, tveir eldri \u00ed Austurb\u00e6jarsk\u00f3la og hinir tveir \u00ed Brei\u00f0holtssk\u00f3la. \u00deeir rifja \u00fea\u00f0 upp a\u00f0 oft var fiskur \u00ed matinn enda eru \u00feeir hraustir og sterklegir a\u00f0 sj\u00e1. En svo kom hamborgara\u00f6ldin og \u00feeir vildu f\u00e1 m\u00f6mmu til a\u00f0 elda \u00feann t\u00edskumat og h\u00fan ger\u00f0i \u00fea\u00f0 me\u00f0 til\u00ferifum og steikti hamborgarana \u00ed 15 m\u00edn\u00fatur \u00e1 hvorri hli\u00f0. H\u00fan var af \u00feeirri kynsl\u00f3\u00f0 sem elda\u00f0i allt vel og mj\u00f6g lengi. Kj\u00f6ti\u00f0 var svo vel elda\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 rann af beinunum. Villikettir og hundar sem r\u00e1fu\u00f0u inn \u00e1 yfirr\u00e1\u00f0asv\u00e6\u00f0i Fr\u00ed\u00f0u og Einars fengu alltaf eitthva\u00f0 og sumir settust a\u00f0 til langframa. H\u00fan baka\u00f0i miki\u00f0 og eftir a\u00f0 frystikystur komu til s\u00f6gunnar var ein sl\u00edk keyr\u00f0 af krafti og fyllt af kj\u00f6tskrokkum, fiski og&nbsp; \u00f6llu sem vert var a\u00f0 geyma \u00ed frosti. \u00deau r\u00e6ktu\u00f0u kart\u00f6flur \u00f6ll s\u00edn \u00e1r \u00ed dalnum og dug\u00f0i uppskeran oftast fram \u00e1 n\u00e6sta vor. Rabbarbarinn var n\u00fdttur og allt sem h\u00e6gt var a\u00f0 gera s\u00e9r mat \u00fat. Baldur minnist \u00feess a\u00f0 eftir a\u00f0 hann f\u00f3r a\u00f0 b\u00faa kom mamma me\u00f0 fullan poka af sokkum, vettlingum og fleiri fl\u00edkum handa fj\u00f6lskyldunni. H\u00fan reyndist tengdad\u00e6trum s\u00ednum vel og Steinunn minnist \u00feess s\u00e9rstaklega hva\u00f0 h\u00fan var henni mikil sto\u00f0 \u00ed veikindum hennar fyrir r\u00famum 20 \u00e1rum en \u00fe\u00e1 kom h\u00fan reglulega f\u00e6randi hendi og vann heimilisst\u00f6rf fyrir fj\u00f6lskylduna.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00fan hugsa\u00f0i vel um str\u00e1kana s\u00edna og \u00fea\u00f0 var henni mikill missir \u00feegar Gu\u00f0mundur hvarf 1974. Erfitt var a\u00f0 vita ekki um \u00f6rl\u00f6g hans e\u00f0a hv\u00edlusta\u00f0. S\u00fa \u00f3vissa naga\u00f0i hana alla t\u00ed\u00f0 og reyndi \u00e1. Hvar var drengurinn hennar gl\u00e6silegi sem \u00e1tti framt\u00ed\u00f0ina fyrir s\u00e9r? H\u00fan \u00fer\u00e1\u00f0i sv\u00f6r og sakna\u00f0i \u00feess a\u00f0 hann hef\u00f0i ekki fengi\u00f0 kve\u00f0justund eins og vi\u00f0 eigum h\u00e9r \u00ed dag og \u00e6tti ekki gr\u00f6f eins og flestir l\u00e1tnir eiga. En minningin um g\u00f3\u00f0an dreng lifir enn me\u00f0 fj\u00f6lskyldunni.<\/p>\n<p>Fr\u00ed\u00f0a elska\u00f0i barnab\u00f6rnin s\u00edn og naut \u00feess a\u00f0 hafa \u00feau hj\u00e1 s\u00e9r og \u00feau eiga margar g\u00f3\u00f0ar minningar um hana. Henni var annt um \u00feau og velfer\u00f0 \u00feeirra. H\u00fan var einstaklega ge\u00f0g\u00f3\u00f0 og gla\u00f0lynd um dagana.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00fan var alla t\u00ed\u00f0 l\u00edkamlega sterk en svo f\u00f3r hugurinn a\u00f0 gefa sig og gleymskan flutti inn. H\u00fan \u00e1tti \u00fea\u00f0 til a\u00f0 hverfa og t\u00fdnast. H\u00fan gleymdi hvar h\u00fan \u00e1tti heima og svo l\u00e6sti h\u00fan sig \u00fati og eldav\u00e9lin gl\u00f3\u00f0i. Einu sinni t\u00fdndi h\u00fan kaupinu s\u00ednu og \u00fea\u00f0 var henni miki\u00f0 \u00e1fall. Ekki m\u00e1tti h\u00fan vi\u00f0 sl\u00edku. H\u00fan vildi komast inn \u00e1 stofnun og f\u00e9kk inni \u00e1 Grund \u00fear sem h\u00fan naut g\u00f3\u00f0rar umhyggju sem h\u00e9r er \u00feakka\u00f0 fyrir. F\u00f3lki\u00f0 hennar heims\u00f3tti hana og s\u00fdndi henni elskusemi og r\u00e6kt \u00fear til yfir lauk.<\/p>\n<p>Og n\u00fa er h\u00fan horfin af \u00feessu jar\u00f0l\u00edfi. Fuglinn segir f\u00e1tt \u00ed Elli\u00f0a\u00e1rdalnum \u00e1 a\u00f0ventunni, prj\u00f3narnir hennar eru \u00feagna\u00f0ir en kettir mala enn \u00ed Brei\u00f0holtinu og hundar gjamma, b\u00f6rn f\u00e6\u00f0ast, vaxa og dafna og leika s\u00e9r, fara \u00ed sk\u00f3la og l\u00e6ra \u00e1 l\u00edfi\u00f0, og m\u00f6mmur og \u00f6mmur kunna enn a\u00f0 prj\u00f3na enda \u00fe\u00f3tt k\u00ednversk vara f\u00e1ist fyrir l\u00edti\u00f0 \u00ed st\u00f3rm\u00f6rku\u00f0um. T\u00e6knin breytist og menningin l\u00edka. N\u00fa er sjaldnar fiskur og lambal\u00e6ri \u00ed matinn hj\u00e1 unga f\u00f3lkinu og allt so\u00f0i\u00f0 skemur en \u00e1\u00f0ur og svo eru komnar pizzur og pasta, p\u00edtur og vefjur, k\u00ednverskt og t\u00e6lenskt.<\/p>\n<p>En mannl\u00edfi\u00f0 heldur \u00e1fram \u00ed sinni leit a\u00f0 hamingjunni. \u00c1stin kviknar, vonin dafnar, leitin a\u00f0 sv\u00f6rum vi\u00f0 l\u00edfsg\u00e1tunni stendur enn yfir, f\u00f3lk f\u00e6\u00f0ist, lifir og deyr \u00ed borginni \u00fear sem n\u00fa er st\u00e6rsti sk\u00f3gur landsins og skj\u00f3l fyrir m\u00f3fugl \u00e1ri\u00f0 um kring.<\/p>\n<p>J\u00f3lin n\u00e1lgast og vi\u00f0 rifjum upp mestu s\u00f6gu allra t\u00edma, s\u00f6guna um a\u00f0 Gu\u00f0 ger\u00f0ist ma\u00f0ur og birtist \u00ed reifabarni sem \u00f3x og kenndi mannkyninu a\u00f0 elska me\u00f0 n\u00fdjum h\u00e6tti, elska og lifa \u00ed s\u00e1tt. Elska Fr\u00ed\u00f0u til eiginmanns, barna og barnabarna, systur og \u00e1stvina, er af stofni hans sem kom \u00e1 j\u00f3lum. \u00dea\u00f0an koma okkur fegurstu hugsj\u00f3nir heimsins um betra l\u00edf &#8211; og um eil\u00edft l\u00edf &#8211; gleymum \u00fev\u00ed ekki.<\/p>\n<p>L\u00edf\u00f0 er \u00ed hendi Gu\u00f0s. Hann f\u00e6\u00f0ir okkur og kl\u00e6\u00f0ir me\u00f0 gj\u00f6fum jar\u00f0ar og g\u00e6\u00f0um. Enn er fiskur \u00ed sj\u00f3num og l\u00f6mb \u00ed haga og hr\u00e1efni berst til landsins \u00ed brau\u00f0 og pizzur. Vi\u00f0 lifum af \u00feessari j\u00f6r\u00f0 og hverfum aftur til jar\u00f0ar a\u00f0 l\u00edfi loknu en svo kemur vonin og tr\u00fain \u00e1 anna\u00f0 l\u00edf, l\u00edf \u00ed himni Gu\u00f0s. Vi\u00f0 felum Fr\u00ed\u00f0u \u00feeirri miklu v\u00eddd sem Gu\u00f0 er. Hann geymi hana og drenginn hennar sem h\u00fan sakna\u00f0i alla t\u00ed\u00f0 og eiginmanninn. Megi \u00feau finnast og gle\u00f0jast me\u00f0 \u00e1stvinum \u00f6llum sem \u00e1\u00f0ur eru horfnir.<\/p>\n<p>Gu\u00f0 blessi minningu Arnfr\u00ed\u00f0ar Felixd\u00f3ttur og Gu\u00f0 geymi \u00feig og var\u00f0veiti \u00e1 l\u00edfsveginum.<\/p>\n<p>Amen.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fdr\u00f0 s\u00e9 Gu\u00f0i, f\u00f6\u00f0ur og syni og heil\u00f6gum anda. Svo sem var \u00ed upphafi er og ver\u00f0u um aldir alda. Amen.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Tilkynningar:<\/p>\n<p>Jar\u00f0sett \u00ed Gufunesi.<\/p>\n<p>Kistan borin \u00fat \u00ed b\u00edl.<\/p>\n<p>Erfi \u00ed safna\u00f0arheimilinu.<\/p>\n<p>Fari\u00f0 \u00ed gar\u00f0inn um kl. 15<\/p>\n<p>R\u00e6\u00f0an birt.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Taki\u00f0 postullegri blessun: Gu\u00f0 vonarinnar . . .<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/localhost:8081\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/sc3a1lmaskrc3a1-arnfrc3adc3b0ur-felixdc3b3ttir.pdf\">S\u00e1lmaskr\u00e1 Arnfr\u00ed\u00f0ur Felixd\u00f3ttir<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Br\u00e9f fr\u00e1 S\u00f3leyju:<\/p>\n<p>Elsku Amma m\u00edn.<\/p>\n<p>\u00deegar \u00e9g f\u00e9kk \u00fe\u00e6r fr\u00e9ttir a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa hef\u00f0ir kvatt \u00feennan heim, \u00fe\u00e1 var m\u00edn fyrsta hugsun \u00feakkl\u00e6ti.&nbsp; \u00deess vegna \u00e1kva\u00f0 \u00e9g a\u00f0 skrifa \u00fe\u00e9r l\u00edti\u00f0 br\u00e9f<\/p>\n<p>\u00deakkl\u00e6ti fyrir svo \u00f3tr\u00falega margt amma m\u00edn, Fyrst og fremst \u00feakkl\u00e6ti fyrir \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 n\u00fa hefur\u00f0u fengi\u00f0 fri\u00f0 og ert ekki lengur a\u00f0 berjast vi\u00f0 \u00feennan hr\u00e6\u00f0ilega sj\u00fakd\u00f3m sem alzheimer er. Sj\u00fakd\u00f3m sem \u00ed rauninni r\u00e6ndi \u00f6mmu okkar fr\u00e1 okkur. Svo \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir sorg \u00ed hjarta \u00fe\u00e1 gle\u00f0st s\u00e1l m\u00edn l\u00edka fyrir \u00fe\u00edna h\u00f6nd \u00fev\u00ed \u00e9g veit a\u00f0 \u00fear sem \u00fe\u00fa ert n\u00fana, \u00fear l\u00ed\u00f0ur \u00fe\u00e9r vel.<\/p>\n<p>En mitt \u00feakkl\u00e6ti endar ekki h\u00e9r amma m\u00edn. \u00c9g er svo \u00f3endanlega \u00feakkl\u00e1t fyrir \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa gafst m\u00e9r og systrum m\u00ednum yndislegt heimili sem vi\u00f0 g\u00e1tum heims\u00f3kt \u00feegar vi\u00f0 vorum b\u00f6rn og unglingar. Heimili \u00fear sem ma\u00f0ur f\u00e9kk \u00fea\u00f0 frelsi til \u00feess a\u00f0 vera barn og leika s\u00e9r samkv\u00e6mt \u00fev\u00ed, \u00fear sem engar \u00e1hyggjur voru, \u00fear sem leikur, hl\u00e1tur og gle\u00f0i r\u00e9\u00f0u r\u00edkjum. Heimili \u00fear sem vi\u00f0 reglulega hittum fr\u00e6nsystkini okkar&nbsp; og fr\u00e6ndur(a\u00f0allega \u00e1 sunnud\u00f6gum)&nbsp; og ekki m\u00e1 gleyma krullu\u00f0u Polly, Polly p\u00e1skaeggi (sem litla fr\u00e6nka m\u00edn sk\u00edr\u00f0i hana einu sinni eina p\u00e1skanna )og Kolly, hundunum sem oft fengu a\u00f0 vera me\u00f0 okkur i feluleik uti \u00ed gar\u00f0i.<\/p>\n<p>\u00deetta gamla h\u00fas var svo fullt af l\u00edfi \u00feegar vi\u00f0 vorum \u00fearna \u00f6ll saman komin, og \u00fe\u00fa amma varst s\u00fa sem ger\u00f0ir \u00feennan sta\u00f0 a\u00f0 hl\u00fdjum sta\u00f0 til a\u00f0 vera ma\u00f0ur sj\u00e1lfur. \u00de\u00fa varst kannski ekki miki\u00f0 fyrir \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 kn\u00fasa okkur e\u00f0a kyssa en \u00fe\u00fa s\u00fdndir okkur systrunum \u00e1st \u00fe\u00edna \u00e1 annan h\u00e1tt, sem er engu s\u00ed\u00f0ri. Ekki man \u00e9g eftir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hafa nokkurn t\u00edmann komi\u00f0 \u00ed heims\u00f3kn \u00fear sem td ekki voru heimabaka\u00f0ar flatk\u00f6kur, v\u00f6fflur, og hj\u00f3nabandss\u00e6la \u00e1 bo\u00f0st\u00f3lum og ekki m\u00e1 gleyma fr\u00e6gu \u00e1starpungunum \u00fe\u00ednum g\u00f3\u00f0u. Og hver man ekki eftir sodastreamsv\u00e9linni sem \u00fe\u00fa st\u00f3\u00f0st vi\u00f0 oft \u00e1 dag svo kr\u00edlin \u00fe\u00edn g\u00e6tu fengi\u00f0 brunt gos, gl\u00e6rt gos og appelsinugult gos. Gos i \u00f6llum regnbogans litum. \u00de\u00fa varst alltaf tilb\u00fain a\u00f0 gera allt fyrir okkur og \u00e9g \u00feakka \u00fe\u00e9r innilega fyrir \u00fea\u00f0.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dea\u00f0 er \u00f3tr\u00falegt hversu margar g\u00f3\u00f0ar minningar og t\u00e1r streyma fram \u00feegar \u00e9g skrifa \u00fe\u00e9r \u00feetta br\u00e9f, \u00e9g g\u00e6ti skrifa\u00f0&nbsp; til \u00fe\u00edn endalaust, en einhverssta\u00f0ar ver\u00f0ur ma\u00f0ur n\u00fa a\u00f0 stoppa. En \u00e1\u00f0ur en \u00e9g h\u00e6tti a\u00f0 skrifa \u00fe\u00e1 vil \u00e9g bara segja \u00fe\u00e9r \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0una fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g skrifa \u00fe\u00e9r \u00feetta br\u00e9f<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u00c1st\u00e6\u00f0an er s\u00fa amma m\u00edn a\u00f0 eins og \u00fe\u00fa veist \u00fe\u00e1 b\u00fd \u00e9g \u00ed Danm\u00f6rku, og eins leitt og m\u00e9r \u00fe\u00f3tti a\u00f0 heyra a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa v\u00e6rir b\u00fain a\u00f0 kve\u00f0ja \u00feennan heim , eins leitt \u00feykir m\u00e9r a\u00f0 hafa ekki geta\u00f0 komi\u00f0 og teki\u00f0&nbsp; h\u00f6nd \u00fe\u00edna \u00ed m\u00edna h\u00f6nd og kvatt \u00feig almenninlega og gefi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r st\u00f3rt fa\u00f0mlag og fengi\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00feakka \u00fe\u00e9r fyrir allt sem \u00fe\u00fa hefur gert fyrir mig og systur minar. Og l\u00edka til \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00feakka \u00fe\u00e9r innilega fyrir \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 hafa veri\u00f0 til sta\u00f0ar fyrir hana m\u00f6mmu m\u00edna \u00feegar h\u00fan var l\u00edtil stelpa sem misst haf\u00f0i&nbsp; b\u00e1\u00f0a foreldra s\u00edna, \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa sj\u00e1lf v\u00e6rir \u00ed sorg. Eftir \u00fev\u00ed sem \u00e9g heyri meira um hvernig \u00feitt l\u00edf var, \u00fev\u00ed meiri vir\u00f0ingu ber \u00e9g fyrir \u00fe\u00e9r. \u00de\u00fa varst kona, haldin miklum styrk, \u00de\u00fa ger\u00f0ir allt fyrir str\u00e1kanna \u00fe\u00edna sama hva\u00f0 \u00e1 gekk. \u00de\u00fa misstir son \u00e1 hr\u00e6\u00f0ilegan h\u00e1tt en \u00feann s\u00e1rsauka og svakalega storm st\u00f3\u00f0stu af \u00fe\u00e9r, \u00fev\u00ed \u00fe\u00fa vissir a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa yr\u00f0ir a\u00f0 vera til sta\u00f0ar fyrir hina syni \u00fe\u00edna og veita \u00feeim styrk og huggun.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9g d\u00e1ist a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r k\u00e6ra amma og \u00e9g elska \u00feig.<\/p>\n<p>megir \u00fe\u00fa hv\u00edla \u00ed fri\u00f0i.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00d6rn B\u00e1r\u00f0ur J\u00f3nsson &nbsp; Minningaror\u00f0 Arnfr\u00ed\u00f0ur Felixd\u00f3ttir 1929-2013 h\u00fasm\u00f3\u00f0ir og r\u00e6stingarkona \u00cdrabakka 20 \u00datf\u00f6r fr\u00e1 Grafarvogskirkju 13. desember 2013 kl. 13 R\u00e6\u00f0una getur\u00f0u hlusta\u00f0 \u00e1 h\u00e9r fyrir ne\u00f0an og lesi\u00f0, einnig s\u00e9\u00f0 s\u00e1lmaskr\u00e1 og br\u00e9f fr\u00e1 barnabarni\/systurd\u00f3ttur:<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_hide_featured_image":false,"_jetpack_featured_image_duplicate_dismissed":0,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-956","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-greinar-og-hugvekjur-articles"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/956","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=956"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/956\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=956"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=956"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=956"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}