{"id":8505,"date":"2026-11-05T19:38:55","date_gmt":"2026-11-05T19:38:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ornbardur.com\/?p=8505"},"modified":"2026-11-05T19:38:55","modified_gmt":"2026-11-05T19:38:55","slug":"kynusli-reynslusaga-modur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/?p=8505","title":{"rendered":"Kynusli &#8211; reynslusaga m\u00f3\u00f0ur"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Grein \u00far breska dagbla\u00f0inu The Telegraph 5. n\u00f3v. 2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00de\u00fddd af Google Translate<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1744\" height=\"879\" src=\"http:\/\/localhost:8081\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/11\/img_1654.jpg?w=1024\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8504\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Mynd af vefs\u00ed\u00f0u The Telegraph<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Samkv\u00e6mt n\u00fdjum l\u00f6gum hef\u00f0i \u00e9g veri\u00f0 handtekin fyrir a\u00f0 vernda d\u00f3ttur m\u00edna gegn \u00e1r\u00f3\u00f0ri um kynbreytingar<br \/>M\u00f3\u00f0ir var stimplu\u00f0 sem sl\u00e6mt foreldri og ofbeldisma\u00f0ur fyrir a\u00f0 vera ekki \u201estu\u00f0ningsr\u00edk\u201c \u2013 heg\u00f0un sem h\u00fan \u00f3ttast a\u00f0 ver\u00f0i ger\u00f0 refsiver\u00f0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Viltu hlusta \u00ed 7 m\u00edn\u00fatur +<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-audio\"><audio controls src=\"https:\/\/pub-c849b6aaf98340c4bec7b480b0f7ffe9.r2.dev\/2026\/11\/kynusli-reynslusaga-modur.m4a\"><\/audio><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nafnlaus<br \/>Birt 5. n\u00f3vember 2026 kl. 06:00 GMT+0<br \/>D\u00f3ttir m\u00edn var 13 \u00e1ra \u00feegar h\u00fan sag\u00f0i m\u00e9r fyrst a\u00f0 h\u00fan v\u00e6ri ekki viss um hvort h\u00fan v\u00e6ri st\u00falka. \u00c9g vissi \u00fea\u00f0 ekki \u00fe\u00e1, en \u00feetta var upphafi\u00f0 a\u00f0 fimm \u00e1ra t\u00edmabili fullu af \u00e1skorunum sem \u00e9g vissi ekki einu sinni a\u00f0 v\u00e6ru til.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c1 \u00feessum \u00e1rum loka\u00f0i d\u00f3ttir m\u00edn \u00e1 mig og \u00fatiloka\u00f0i mig \u00far l\u00edfi s\u00ednu. Foreldrar vina hennar t\u00f6ldu mig vonda manneskju og tilkynnt var um mig til barnaverndaryfirvalda \u00ed tv\u00edgang, eftir a\u00f0 sk\u00f3linn hennar saka\u00f0i mig um ofbeldi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ef frumvarpi\u00f0 um bann vi\u00f0 \u201ebreytingame\u00f0fer\u00f0um\u201c (e. <em>conversion practices<\/em>) hef\u00f0i veri\u00f0 or\u00f0i\u00f0 a\u00f0 l\u00f6gum \u00e1 \u00feeim t\u00edma, hef\u00f0i \u00e9g geta\u00f0 \u00e1tt yfir h\u00f6f\u00f0i m\u00e9r handt\u00f6ku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c9g lag\u00f0i fram sta\u00f0reyndir, l\u00f6g og regluger\u00f0ir fyrir sk\u00f3lann hennar, en engum var annt um \u00fea\u00f0. \u00cd \u00feeirra augum var \u00e9g ekki venjuleg m\u00f3\u00f0ir a\u00f0 vernda unglingsd\u00f3ttur s\u00edna fyrir ska\u00f0a; \u00e9g var ofbeldisma\u00f0ur sem framdi verkna\u00f0 sem \u00feeir t\u00f6ldu a\u00f0 \u00e6tti a\u00f0 vera gl\u00e6pur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c1\u00f0ur en d\u00f3ttir m\u00edn kom heim \u00feennan dag haf\u00f0i \u00e9g heyrt um b\u00f6rn sem breyta um kyn, en \u00e9g haf\u00f0i ekki velt \u00fev\u00ed miki\u00f0 fyrir m\u00e9r og aldrei \u00edmynda\u00f0 m\u00e9r a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 myndi snerta mig.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00deegar h\u00fan f\u00f3r a\u00f0 spyrja spurninga var\u00f0 m\u00e9r fyrst fyrir a\u00f0 segja: \u201e\u00dea\u00f0 er ekki r\u00e9tt.\u201c En \u00e9g mundi eftir \u00fev\u00ed hvernig \u00fea\u00f0 var a\u00f0 vera \u00ferett\u00e1n \u00e1ra og vissi hversu m\u00f3tt\u00e6kileg b\u00f6rn geta veri\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00feeim aldri, svo \u00e9g sag\u00f0i: \u201eTakk fyrir a\u00f0 segja m\u00e9r fr\u00e1 \u00feessu, \u00e9g elska \u00feig.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Eins og a\u00f0 st\u00edga inn \u00ed \u201ehli\u00f0arheim\u201c<br \/>Um \u00fea\u00f0 bil sex m\u00e1nu\u00f0um eftir fyrsta samtali\u00f0 f\u00f3ru bei\u00f0nirnar a\u00f0 berast. Fyrst ba\u00f0 h\u00fan um brj\u00f3stabindi. S\u00ed\u00f0an sag\u00f0ist h\u00fan vilja breyta nafni s\u00ednu og nota karlkynsforn\u00f6fn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c9g sam\u00feykkti notkun fornafnanna en ger\u00f0i ekkert frekar \u00ed m\u00e1linu. En \u00feegar \u00e9g sag\u00f0i nei vi\u00f0 brj\u00f3stabindinu, me\u00f0 v\u00edsan til heilsufars, sag\u00f0i h\u00fan a\u00f0 h\u00fan g\u00e6ti hugsanlega frami\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfsmor\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 var skelfilegt a\u00f0 heyra. Hvernig gat barni\u00f0 mitt, sem var svo s\u00e9rstakt, g\u00e1fa\u00f0 og skapandi, allt \u00ed einu veri\u00f0 fari\u00f0 a\u00f0 huglei\u00f0a sj\u00e1lfsmor\u00f0?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00deegar \u00e9g spur\u00f0i hvar h\u00fan hef\u00f0i heyrt um sj\u00e1lfsmor\u00f0 svara\u00f0i h\u00fan a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 hef\u00f0i veri\u00f0 \u00ed sk\u00f3lanum. \u00dea\u00f0 var ekki fyrr en l\u00f6ngu s\u00ed\u00f0ar a\u00f0 \u00e9g komst a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 svok\u00f6llu\u00f0 \u201efyrirmynd \u00ed fj\u00f6lbreytileikam\u00e1lum\u201c haf\u00f0i komi\u00f0 \u00ed sk\u00f3lann hennar og sagt fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00fan hef\u00f0i vilja\u00f0 fremja sj\u00e1lfsmor\u00f0, \u00fear til kynlei\u00f0r\u00e9ttingara\u00f0ger\u00f0 bjarga\u00f0i l\u00edfi hennar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Eftir a\u00f0 hafa kynnt m\u00e9r m\u00e1li\u00f0 t\u00f3k \u00e9g eftir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00ed t\u00f6lvup\u00f3stum fr\u00e1 sk\u00f3la d\u00f3ttur minnar var h\u00fan n\u00fa k\u00f6llu\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed n\u00fdja nafni sem h\u00fan haf\u00f0i be\u00f0i\u00f0 mig um a\u00f0 nota. \u00c9g spur\u00f0i hvers vegna \u00feau ger\u00f0u \u00feetta \u00e1n m\u00edns sam\u00feykkis, og upp fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed var \u00e9g talin sl\u00e6mt foreldri \u00fear sem \u00e9g s\u00fdndi ekki \u201estu\u00f0ning\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sk\u00f6mmu s\u00ed\u00f0ar sag\u00f0i h\u00fan m\u00e9r a\u00f0 h\u00fan hef\u00f0i l\u00e6rt \u00ed sk\u00f3lanum a\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 fremja hatursgl\u00e6pi og beita hana ofbeldi me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 neita a\u00f0 vi\u00f0urkenna a\u00f0 h\u00fan v\u00e6ri drengur me\u00f0 anna\u00f0 nafn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00dea\u00f0 var eins og \u00e9g v\u00e6ri komin inn \u00ed annan heim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tilkynnt til barnaverndaryfirvalda<br \/>\u00deegar \u00e9g spur\u00f0i sk\u00f3lann hvers vegna \u00feeir hef\u00f0u ekki haft samband vi\u00f0 yfirv\u00f6ld, ef \u00feeir t\u00f6ldu mig beita barni\u00f0 ofbeldi, var \u00e9g tilkynnt til barnaverndaryfirvalda \u00ed fyrsta sinn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vi\u00f0 skiptum um sk\u00f3la \u00e1ri\u00f0 eftir, en \u00fear var h\u00fan aftur k\u00f6llu\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0ru nafni. Sk\u00f3linn bar \u00fev\u00ed vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 hann v\u00e6ri \u201eStonewall-meistari\u201c (e. \u201eStonewall champion\u201c) og styddi b\u00f6rn \u00ed \u00feeirri kynvitund sem \u00feau hef\u00f0u vali\u00f0 s\u00e9r. \u00deeir veittu d\u00f3ttur minni einnig s\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0ia\u00f0sto\u00f0, \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir m\u00f3tm\u00e6li m\u00edn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00deetta leiddi til \u00feess a\u00f0 barnaverndaryfirv\u00f6ld h\u00f6f\u00f0u samband \u00ed anna\u00f0 sinn. \u00cd \u00feetta skipti komu \u00feau heim til okkar, leitu\u00f0u \u00ed \u00edssk\u00e1pnum og sk\u00faffunum hj\u00e1 okkur og r\u00e6ddu vi\u00f0 hin b\u00f6rnin m\u00edn. \u00deau voru hr\u00e6dd og skildu ekki hva\u00f0 var a\u00f0 gerast. \u00deau upplif\u00f0u l\u00edka sk\u00f6mm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ef frumvarp um bann vi\u00f0 \u201ebreytingame\u00f0fer\u00f0um\u201c (e. <em>conversion practices<\/em>) ver\u00f0ur a\u00f0 l\u00f6gum, \u00f3ttast \u00e9g mj\u00f6g a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 geri e\u00f0lilegt uppeldi \u2013 sem felur \u00ed s\u00e9r a\u00f0 segja nei vi\u00f0 hlutum sem unglingar vilja hverju sinni \u2013 a\u00f0 gl\u00e6psamlegu ath\u00e6fi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00deetta hlj\u00f3mar kannski undarlega, en \u00e1 \u00feessum \u00e1rum fannst m\u00e9r barnaverndaryfirv\u00f6ld og l\u00f6greglan vera \u00feau einu sem hugsu\u00f0u skynsamlega. \u00deegar \u00e9g haf\u00f0i \u00fatsk\u00fdrt st\u00f6\u00f0una fyrir \u00feeim var \u00feeim lj\u00f3st a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 v\u00e6rum venjuleg fj\u00f6lskylda sem veitti b\u00f6rnunum \u00f6ruggt og k\u00e6rleiksr\u00edkt heimili.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En ef \u00feetta frumvarp ver\u00f0ur a\u00f0 l\u00f6gum ver\u00f0ur \u00feeim ekki lengur heimilt a\u00f0 beita sl\u00edkri skynsamlegri n\u00e1lgun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fj\u00f6lskyldum meina\u00f0 um s\u00e1tt<br \/>\u00c9g hef \u00e1hyggjur af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feetta g\u00e6ti leitt til a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0na \u00fear sem b\u00f6rnum, l\u00edkt og m\u00ednu barni, ver\u00f0ur meina\u00f0 a\u00f0 s\u00e6ttast vi\u00f0 foreldra s\u00edna. \u00c9g kenni d\u00f3ttur minni ekki um neitt af \u00feessu \u2013 h\u00fan var barn sem var\u00f0 fyrir bar\u00f0inu \u00e1 kerfum sem \u00e1ttu a\u00f0 vernda hana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En a\u00f0 upplifa a\u00f0 foreldrar manns s\u00e9u sendir \u00ed fangelsi er eitthva\u00f0 sem fylgir manni alla \u00e6vi. Hvernig \u00e1 ma\u00f0ur a\u00f0 n\u00e1 s\u00e9r eftir sl\u00edkt?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cd \u00f6rv\u00e6ntingarfullri tilraun skiptum vi\u00f0 aftur um sk\u00f3la, \u00ed \u00feetta sinn yfir \u00ed sk\u00f3la sem \u00fdtti ekki s\u00e9rstaklega undir stefnur var\u00f0andi m\u00e1lefni trans f\u00f3lks, og veitti henni \u00fea\u00f0 svigr\u00fam sem h\u00fan \u00feurfti til a\u00f0 vaxa og dafna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00deetta var h\u00e6gt ferli, en \u00e1 n\u00e6stu \u00e1rum \u00f3x h\u00fan upp \u00far \u00feessu og sm\u00e1m saman f\u00f3rum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 tala saman \u00e1 n\u00fd. Vi\u00f0 h\u00f6fum ekki r\u00e6tt \u00fea\u00f0 sem ger\u00f0ist, en mig vantar ekkert sl\u00edkt \u201ekvikmyndaatri\u00f0i\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00dea\u00f0 sem \u00e9g hef er d\u00f3ttir m\u00edn \u2013 h\u00fan er \u00e1 l\u00edfi, heil \u00e1 h\u00fafi og bl\u00f3mstrar \u2013 og fyrir m\u00e9r er \u00fea\u00f0 kraftaverk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Skr\u00e1\u00f0 af Cameron Henderson<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Leita\u00f0 var eftir ums\u00f6gn hj\u00e1 Stonewall<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8212;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sl\u00f3\u00f0 \u00e1 greinina \u00e1 ensku: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/news\/2026\/11\/05\/new-law-arrested-protecting-daughter-trans-propaganda\/<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/news\/2026\/11\/05\/new-law-arrested-protecting-daughter-trans-propaganda\/\">https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/news\/2026\/11\/05\/new-law-arrested-protecting-daughter-trans-propaganda\/<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Grein \u00far breska dagbla\u00f0inu The Telegraph 5. n\u00f3v. 2026 \u00de\u00fddd af Google Translate Samkv\u00e6mt n\u00fdjum l\u00f6gum hef\u00f0i \u00e9g veri\u00f0 handtekin fyrir a\u00f0 vernda d\u00f3ttur m\u00edna gegn \u00e1r\u00f3\u00f0ri um kynbreytingarM\u00f3\u00f0ir var stimplu\u00f0 sem sl\u00e6mt foreldri og ofbeldisma\u00f0ur fyrir a\u00f0 vera ekki \u201estu\u00f0ningsr\u00edk\u201c \u2013 heg\u00f0un sem h\u00fan \u00f3ttast a\u00f0 ver\u00f0i ger\u00f0 refsiver\u00f0 Viltu hlusta \u00ed 7 m\u00edn\u00fatur [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_hide_featured_image":false,"_jetpack_featured_image_duplicate_dismissed":0,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8505","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-greinar-og-hugvekjur-articles"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8505","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8505"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8505\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8505"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8505"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8505"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}