{"id":3098,"date":"2022-04-04T17:24:21","date_gmt":"2022-04-04T17:24:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ornbardur.com\/2022\/04\/04\/ad-bidjast-fyrirgefningar-hvernig\/"},"modified":"2022-04-04T17:24:21","modified_gmt":"2022-04-04T17:24:21","slug":"ad-bidjast-fyrirgefningar-hvernig","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/?p=3098","title":{"rendered":"Viltu fyrirgefa m\u00e9r?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Stutt hugvekja um fyrirgefningu me\u00f0 sm\u00e1 endurb\u00f3tum. Texti og hlj\u00f3\u00f0upptaka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-audio\"><audio controls src=\"https:\/\/pub-c849b6aaf98340c4bec7b480b0f7ffe9.r2.dev\/2022\/04\/viltu-fyrirgefa-mecc81r-1.m4a\"><\/audio><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cd fr\u00e9ttum vikunnar hefur veri\u00f0 fjalla\u00f0 um afs\u00f6kunarbei\u00f0ni Sigur\u00f0ar Inga J\u00f3hannssonar, formanns Frams\u00f3knarflokksins. Hann bi\u00f0st innilega afs\u00f6kunar \u00e1 or\u00f0um s\u00ednum gagnvart framkv\u00e6mdastj\u00f3ra B\u00e6ndasamtakanna, sem hann vi\u00f0haf\u00f0i \u00ed veislu og Katr\u00edn Jakobsd\u00f3ttir, fors\u00e6tisr\u00e1\u00f0herra, sag\u00f0i \u00ed svari vi\u00f0 gagnr\u00fdni \u00feingmanna \u00e1 fundi Al\u00feingis: \u201eVer\u00f0um a\u00f0 geta teki\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed \u00feegar f\u00f3lk bi\u00f0st afs\u00f6kunar me\u00f0 mj\u00f6g sk\u00fdrum h\u00e6tti\u201c. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00deetta er bara ein fr\u00e9tt en mi\u00f0larnir moka \u00fat s\u00ednum vibr\u00f6g\u00f0um sem er skiljanlegt. Og sumir hafa kalla\u00f0 vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0 SIJ &#8220;gasl\u00fdsingu&#8221; sem er a\u00f0fer\u00f0 notu\u00f0 \u00ed p\u00f3lit\u00edk \u00feegar \u00f6llu er neita\u00f0 en svo hengja menn sig \u00e1 aukaatri\u00f0i og afvegalei\u00f0a umr\u00e6\u00f0una. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00fa veit \u00e9g ekki hvort SIJ hefur haft tal af Vig\u00ad\u00ad\u00add\u00edsi H\u00e4sler sem var\u00f0 fyrir hans \u00f3tr\u00falegu tj\u00e1ningu en \u00fea\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur hann a\u00f0 gera ef \u00ed honum er einhver veigur sem pers\u00f3nu. Alv\u00f6ru i\u00f0run og fyrirgefning ver\u00f0ur ekki framkv\u00e6md me\u00f0 einhli\u00f0a yfirl\u00fdsingu um afs\u00f6kun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En \u00feetta m\u00e1l lei\u00f0ir hugann a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed me\u00f0 hva\u00f0a h\u00e6tti menn bi\u00f0jast afs\u00f6kunar og \u00fe\u00e1 s\u00e9rstaklega ef menn bi\u00f0jast fyrirgefningar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u00f6rn sem gert hafa \u00e1 hlut annars barns segja gjarnan sn\u00f6ggt og sn\u00fa\u00f0ugt: Fyrirgef\u00f0u! \u00de\u00e1 er \u00fea\u00f0 gerandinn sem sendir fr\u00e1 s\u00e9r einhli\u00f0a yfirl\u00fdsingu og ekkert anna\u00f0. Hann hrifsar til s\u00edn fyrirgefninguna sem er ekki h\u00e6gt \u00fev\u00ed h\u00fan ver\u00f0ur a\u00f0 koma fr\u00e1 \u00feolandanum, \u00feolandinn er d\u00f3marinn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u00e1 sem bi\u00f0st fyrirgefningar \u00e1 einhverju veit sig sekan og \u00fev\u00ed \u00fearf hann a\u00f0 bi\u00f0ja \u00feolandann um a\u00f0 fyrirgefa s\u00e9r, segjast sj\u00e1 eftir or\u00f0um s\u00ednum e\u00f0a gj\u00f6r\u00f0um og l\u00fdsa \u00fev\u00ed me\u00f0 hva\u00f0a h\u00e6tti hann muni leita betrunar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u00f0 bi\u00f0jast fyrirgefningar og s\u00e6ttast er \u00ed raun r\u00e9ttarfarslegur gj\u00f6rningur \u00fear sem spurt er: Viltu fyrirgefa m\u00e9r?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1757\" height=\"975\" src=\"http:\/\/localhost:8081\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/img_1265.jpg?w=1024\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3097\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hinn seki bi\u00f0ur \u00feolandann a\u00f0 fella d\u00f3m og n\u00e1\u00f0a sig. Valdi\u00f0 er \u00fear me\u00f0 hj\u00e1 \u00feolandanum, sem getur neita\u00f0 og d\u00e6mt hinn seka til a\u00f0 bera verkna\u00f0 sinn \u00e1fram \u00f3uppger\u00f0an. \u00dea\u00f0 er einskonar refsing. En ef \u00feolandinn fyrirgefur \u00fe\u00e1 n\u00e1\u00f0ar hann hinn seka og \u00fear me\u00f0 er m\u00e1li\u00f0 b\u00fai\u00f0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Enginn getur teki\u00f0 s\u00e9r fyrirgefningu me\u00f0 einfaldri yfirl\u00fdsingu. Hinn seki getur bara loti\u00f0 l\u00e1gt, i\u00f0rast og fari\u00f0 fram \u00e1 d\u00f3m \u00ed von um n\u00e1\u00f0un. Gerandi ver\u00f0ur a\u00f0 tala vi\u00f0 \u00feolanda og leysa m\u00e1li\u00f0 fyrir d\u00f3mst\u00f3li hins s\u00ed\u00f0arnefnda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00deetta \u00fearf a\u00f0 kenna \u00ed uppeldinu heima og \u00e1 leiksk\u00f3lum og reyndar \u00e1 \u00f6llum menntastigum. \u00deetta tilheyrir grundvallars\u00fdn \u00e1 sekt, d\u00f3m og s\u00e6ttir \u00ed mannlegum samskiptum og kunn\u00e1tta \u00ed \u00feessum efnum \u00e1 a\u00f0 fylgja f\u00f3lki \u00e6vina \u00fat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">(https:\/\/www.visir.is\/g\/20222244347d\/-verdum-ad-geta-tekid-thvi-thegar-folk-bidst-afsokunar-med-mjog-skyrum-haetti-)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Stutt hugvekja um fyrirgefningu me\u00f0 sm\u00e1 endurb\u00f3tum. Texti og hlj\u00f3\u00f0upptaka. \u00cd fr\u00e9ttum vikunnar hefur veri\u00f0 fjalla\u00f0 um afs\u00f6kunarbei\u00f0ni Sigur\u00f0ar Inga J\u00f3hannssonar, formanns Frams\u00f3knarflokksins. Hann bi\u00f0st innilega afs\u00f6kunar \u00e1 or\u00f0um s\u00ednum gagnvart framkv\u00e6mdastj\u00f3ra B\u00e6ndasamtakanna, sem hann vi\u00f0haf\u00f0i \u00ed veislu og Katr\u00edn Jakobsd\u00f3ttir, fors\u00e6tisr\u00e1\u00f0herra, sag\u00f0i \u00ed svari vi\u00f0 gagnr\u00fdni \u00feingmanna \u00e1 fundi Al\u00feingis: \u201eVer\u00f0um a\u00f0 geta teki\u00f0 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_hide_featured_image":false,"_jetpack_featured_image_duplicate_dismissed":0,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[4],"tags":[518,557],"class_list":["post-3098","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-greinar-og-hugvekjur-articles","tag-rettlaeti","tag-sidferdi"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3098","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3098"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3098\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3098"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3098"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ornbardur.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3098"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}